- The balance between confrontation and love
Confrontation often creates fear. That’s why we are so quick in closing down and putting our safety masks in position that we have come so used to in our everyday “modern” life. What happens when we take our masks down? We become free – but we might also feel how fragile we are. In this […]
- My self-love experiences
Self-love brings us into loving ever more, inside and outside. This can trigger our deepest fears. Being in the unconditional, limitless love can bring up the supressed hurts to the surface, so the love can finally heal it. It can also lead some of us to project their fears onto others, in a way of […]
- Step by step to conscious love
In our world of love, we are used to finding a partner for the whole. EVERYTHING must be right: Appearance, weight, height, figure, shape and size of genitals, smell, taste, hobbies, eating habits, career prospects, desire for children, and whatnot. With so many mental specifications that must interact and fit, the chances of experiencing healing, […]
- Conscious Togetherness
The image is part of my new Mystical Cave Art series that I create with human creativity and AI software, in order to bring peace between humans and database-driven software code. Love Abundance For creating this New World in a safe, creative, colourful and loving way, we can stay in the bliss of Love Abundance. […]
- The second love
Who feels unfree in the partnership or not satisfied on all multidimensional levels, has usually made a promise to the partner not to come too close to another soul. It weighs heavily, the ghastly sword between the feeling of shame because of a “cheating” on one side and the often deep pain of jealousy on […]
- What is a “chaste” relationship?
Most of us probably understand it as the church’s interpretation of sexually abstinent partner relationships. That is why the word is not very popular nowadays. But the meaning of the word “chaste” has been distorted over the years. Let’s look it up in Wiktionary: Origin: Borrowed from Old High German “kūski” via Middle High German […]
- Getting to know each other consciously
A conscious relationship between Yin and Yang already starts with the first acquaintance. Are there expectations, dreams, wishes, or may Gaia (others say: “the universe”) simply initiate the play and flirt scene and both look in which direction it wants to develop? May there also be a tentative feeling in when getting to know each […]
- Dear Yang! Not all was bad.
I write so much about the new age of balanced Yin, and so much about all the “bad” sides of Yang that we have now experienced in tedium for several thousand years. In the last few years, this power has been particularly obvious. 2020 felt like a last burst before the Yin entered our world […]
- Dear Tantra: Time for renewal?
(This text also appeared in my blog on Healer & Creator). This text will not be easy to write, and for some it may not be easy to read and feel, I sense that ahead of time. My writing and my perspective of truth sometimes triggers, and sometimes that’s quite good. Nevertheless, I hope that […]
- The prohibition of love
Women and men, or Yin and Yang, they have had a long, messy history together over the past millennia. From this time of yang dictatorship, we have probably all been able to learn a lot, and many continue to do so, because we are still in the middle of the yang-programmed system. Taking that big […]
- Loving touches behind high walls of thought
Loving touches are difficult in our “modern” world. Mostly we allow them only in our relationships. As a single person we are either supposed to pay for it (but please don’t tell anyone about it because it is so “dirty”!) or we are supposed to hold back and be patient until the right future potential […]
- The limitation of loving touch
Where does it come from, this restriction, with some even fear!, of loving touch? The Germans are even a bit overfed with it, I sometimes think to myself, because I also feel this acquired, distorted part in me. Since the natural loving living together, as experienced only in very few indigenous tribes, we have somehow […]
- The beauty of the universe in the universe
I’m sure the majority of men will agree with me: Women are beautiful! From them reflects an irresistible attraction for men, but often also for other women, if they can end the old sibling squabble whether any woman should be classified “more beautiful” than another. But it is not only her outer beauty and otherness, […]
- Foreword (Hooray, I am Human!)
How can two souls have energetically healing and balancing experiences, harmonize their chakras and Yin-Yang balance, and strengthen their relationship, emotional intimacy and unconditional love? This was the question I asked my Spirit Guides, even though I didn’t formulate it so beautifully and clearly at first. But I felt inside what I was looking for […]
- Unconditional, giving love
In the last few months, I had learned to be able to give a lot internally without immediately expecting a love response. I had become accustomed to this state, found it normal. What we find normal, we can give to other people without any further effort of energy. So today I find it quite normal […]
- Three rays of love
Without trust there is no opening for love, therefore trust is always the first and most important ray of any relationship. The basis for trust is loving, honest communication with each other (Truth Talk). Showing care: We are there for the other soul when they need us, we do our best so that both experience […]
- Giving and taking in balance
We say that in a harmonious relationship, giving and taking should be in balance, so that everything remains harmonious and balanced and no one demands more energy from the other than she or he can give back. And yes, there are those dangers of falling completely into a victim role, on both sides of the […]
- Am I worthy of your love?
(Inspired by St. Germain: The I AM Discourses) Am I worthy of your love? What a great question, if we are willing to work on our ego issues. Am I worthy of your love? What a dangerous question, if it takes us straight to our deepest shadow issues of self-acceptance, self-worth and self-love. And yet, […]
- Musical forgiveness of Yang
Ajeet Kaur creates something remarkable with this song: “Kiss the earth (La Luna). Live in Amsterdam”.She heals the wounds between Yin and Yang. And very specifically, she helps forgiving the Yang. The men in the room were asked to sing part of the song alone, with love. The women were allowed to listen, with love. […]
- How much more pain and fear do you want to feel?
Have you also felt so much inner pain in the last two years? And felt so many fears? Maybe first because of one topic… then because of the other… And in between again and again this fear of your own inner growth, do you know that too? Isn’t it enough? How much more? At some […]
- I also know this fear of growth
In my article Do you want to be touched? Or are you afraid? I wrote about my experiences in the past. But of course, I have the same fear of inner growth that everyone has. During an interview just now came a beautiful definition of this “path” we call growth. We are actually already. We […]
- Do you want to be touched? Or are you afraid?
My theme for this year is loving touch. On the one hand physically, for this I am currently writing an (audio) book about meditative hugs, which I am releasing chapter by chapter for free on my YouTube channel. And then there are the inner touches. Good grace! What are people afraid of touch… I talk […]
- What women and men want
Men often like more physical closeness. The Yang comes from the outside to the heart center. Women often like more emotional closeness. The Yin comes from inside to the heart center. Both have to find a common path, otherwise the relationship is not particularly pleasant for either of them, whether Yin or Yang, then it […]
- Do you like to be called cute?
In Spain, people often say mi niño or mi niña: my boy/girl. They also like to say it to people they don’t know, for example when shopping. It’s a form of expressing cuteness, meant as a compliment, a fond reminder of how young we are. People strive to be young and feel young (into old […]
- Women circles with two guests?
After watching many announcements of ever more women circles and retreats, after talking with many women and men about this, let me try to suggest a new approach that could lead to more healing. Our personal and global world has never been as seperated as this before. Even though we might feel more connected via […]
- Pardon me? A flawless life?
Someone who is fully satisfied with the status quo of personal development does not need any mistakes in his or her life. He or she prefers the most stable comfort zone possible. Then when mistakes happen, and they inevitably do, they usually get angry with themselves. Some even use curse words against themselves and think […]
- The unhealed conflict between Yin & Yang
Yin is going through a difficult time of healing. Millennia of Yang dictatorship are coming to an end, the old is dissolving, the new is slowly emerging, and we are cautiously trying to take our first steps in a world that seems so new and so different. But something holds us back. The Yang has […]
- Only LOVE can heal us.
How is a personality disorder diagnosed? Five of nine criteria must apply. I think that’s a very woolly and inaccurate idea of the multidimensional structures of our psyche. So someone could be conspicuous in three or four criteria, and nevertheless, this human being is not officially considered to have a personality disorder. How do we […]
- Humans need physical closeness
Strange that I have to write an article about this at all. But our “modern” world has unfortunately largely forgotten what makes us human and distinguishes us from bio-robots. Closeness! We need physical closeness. Otherwise we die, either already as an infant shortly after birth or later, inwardly, day by day a little bit more. […]
- Control addiction (yang) versus victim attitude (yin)
Classically, we assign the active yang (i.e. our male inner parts) the quality of control. In contrast, the passive yin (our female inner parts) is the supposedly weak victim. Among other places, we live out this “game” between power and powerlessness in our love relationships, mostly completely unconscious. In parallel, the same “game” exists at […]
- Are we all a bit narcissistic?
Colloquially, a “narcissist” is a person who displays pronounced egoism, arrogance and selfishness and behaves ruthlessly towards others. https://www.therapie.de/psyche/info/index/diagnose/persoenlichkeitsstoerungen/narzisstisch/ Are we all Nazis narcissists? There are distinctly visible forms of narcissism, but there are also the very subtle harbingers, in homeopathic doses, so to say. We think we are particularly important, we pile ourselves up […]
Confrontation often creates fear. That’s why we are so quick in closing down and putting our safety masks in position that we have come so used to in our everyday “modern” life. What happens when we take our masks down? We become free – but we might also feel how fragile we are. In this […]
Self-love brings us into loving ever more, inside and outside. This can trigger our deepest fears. Being in the unconditional, limitless love can bring up the supressed hurts to the surface, so the love can finally heal it. It can also lead some of us to project their fears onto others, in a way of […]
In our world of love, we are used to finding a partner for the whole. EVERYTHING must be right: Appearance, weight, height, figure, shape and size of genitals, smell, taste, hobbies, eating habits, career prospects, desire for children, and whatnot. With so many mental specifications that must interact and fit, the chances of experiencing healing, […]
The image is part of my new Mystical Cave Art series that I create with human creativity and AI software, in order to bring peace between humans and database-driven software code. Love Abundance For creating this New World in a safe, creative, colourful and loving way, we can stay in the bliss of Love Abundance. […]
Who feels unfree in the partnership or not satisfied on all multidimensional levels, has usually made a promise to the partner not to come too close to another soul. It weighs heavily, the ghastly sword between the feeling of shame because of a “cheating” on one side and the often deep pain of jealousy on […]
Most of us probably understand it as the church’s interpretation of sexually abstinent partner relationships. That is why the word is not very popular nowadays. But the meaning of the word “chaste” has been distorted over the years. Let’s look it up in Wiktionary: Origin: Borrowed from Old High German “kūski” via Middle High German […]
A conscious relationship between Yin and Yang already starts with the first acquaintance. Are there expectations, dreams, wishes, or may Gaia (others say: “the universe”) simply initiate the play and flirt scene and both look in which direction it wants to develop? May there also be a tentative feeling in when getting to know each […]
I write so much about the new age of balanced Yin, and so much about all the “bad” sides of Yang that we have now experienced in tedium for several thousand years. In the last few years, this power has been particularly obvious. 2020 felt like a last burst before the Yin entered our world […]
(This text also appeared in my blog on Healer & Creator). This text will not be easy to write, and for some it may not be easy to read and feel, I sense that ahead of time. My writing and my perspective of truth sometimes triggers, and sometimes that’s quite good. Nevertheless, I hope that […]
Women and men, or Yin and Yang, they have had a long, messy history together over the past millennia. From this time of yang dictatorship, we have probably all been able to learn a lot, and many continue to do so, because we are still in the middle of the yang-programmed system. Taking that big […]
Loving touches are difficult in our “modern” world. Mostly we allow them only in our relationships. As a single person we are either supposed to pay for it (but please don’t tell anyone about it because it is so “dirty”!) or we are supposed to hold back and be patient until the right future potential […]
Where does it come from, this restriction, with some even fear!, of loving touch? The Germans are even a bit overfed with it, I sometimes think to myself, because I also feel this acquired, distorted part in me. Since the natural loving living together, as experienced only in very few indigenous tribes, we have somehow […]
I’m sure the majority of men will agree with me: Women are beautiful! From them reflects an irresistible attraction for men, but often also for other women, if they can end the old sibling squabble whether any woman should be classified “more beautiful” than another. But it is not only her outer beauty and otherness, […]
How can two souls have energetically healing and balancing experiences, harmonize their chakras and Yin-Yang balance, and strengthen their relationship, emotional intimacy and unconditional love? This was the question I asked my Spirit Guides, even though I didn’t formulate it so beautifully and clearly at first. But I felt inside what I was looking for […]
In the last few months, I had learned to be able to give a lot internally without immediately expecting a love response. I had become accustomed to this state, found it normal. What we find normal, we can give to other people without any further effort of energy. So today I find it quite normal […]
Without trust there is no opening for love, therefore trust is always the first and most important ray of any relationship. The basis for trust is loving, honest communication with each other (Truth Talk). Showing care: We are there for the other soul when they need us, we do our best so that both experience […]
We say that in a harmonious relationship, giving and taking should be in balance, so that everything remains harmonious and balanced and no one demands more energy from the other than she or he can give back. And yes, there are those dangers of falling completely into a victim role, on both sides of the […]
(Inspired by St. Germain: The I AM Discourses) Am I worthy of your love? What a great question, if we are willing to work on our ego issues. Am I worthy of your love? What a dangerous question, if it takes us straight to our deepest shadow issues of self-acceptance, self-worth and self-love. And yet, […]
Ajeet Kaur creates something remarkable with this song: “Kiss the earth (La Luna). Live in Amsterdam”.She heals the wounds between Yin and Yang. And very specifically, she helps forgiving the Yang. The men in the room were asked to sing part of the song alone, with love. The women were allowed to listen, with love. […]
Have you also felt so much inner pain in the last two years? And felt so many fears? Maybe first because of one topic… then because of the other… And in between again and again this fear of your own inner growth, do you know that too? Isn’t it enough? How much more? At some […]
In my article Do you want to be touched? Or are you afraid? I wrote about my experiences in the past. But of course, I have the same fear of inner growth that everyone has. During an interview just now came a beautiful definition of this “path” we call growth. We are actually already. We […]
My theme for this year is loving touch. On the one hand physically, for this I am currently writing an (audio) book about meditative hugs, which I am releasing chapter by chapter for free on my YouTube channel. And then there are the inner touches. Good grace! What are people afraid of touch… I talk […]
Men often like more physical closeness. The Yang comes from the outside to the heart center. Women often like more emotional closeness. The Yin comes from inside to the heart center. Both have to find a common path, otherwise the relationship is not particularly pleasant for either of them, whether Yin or Yang, then it […]
In Spain, people often say mi niño or mi niña: my boy/girl. They also like to say it to people they don’t know, for example when shopping. It’s a form of expressing cuteness, meant as a compliment, a fond reminder of how young we are. People strive to be young and feel young (into old […]
After watching many announcements of ever more women circles and retreats, after talking with many women and men about this, let me try to suggest a new approach that could lead to more healing. Our personal and global world has never been as seperated as this before. Even though we might feel more connected via […]
Someone who is fully satisfied with the status quo of personal development does not need any mistakes in his or her life. He or she prefers the most stable comfort zone possible. Then when mistakes happen, and they inevitably do, they usually get angry with themselves. Some even use curse words against themselves and think […]
Yin is going through a difficult time of healing. Millennia of Yang dictatorship are coming to an end, the old is dissolving, the new is slowly emerging, and we are cautiously trying to take our first steps in a world that seems so new and so different. But something holds us back. The Yang has […]
How is a personality disorder diagnosed? Five of nine criteria must apply. I think that’s a very woolly and inaccurate idea of the multidimensional structures of our psyche. So someone could be conspicuous in three or four criteria, and nevertheless, this human being is not officially considered to have a personality disorder. How do we […]
Strange that I have to write an article about this at all. But our “modern” world has unfortunately largely forgotten what makes us human and distinguishes us from bio-robots. Closeness! We need physical closeness. Otherwise we die, either already as an infant shortly after birth or later, inwardly, day by day a little bit more. […]
Classically, we assign the active yang (i.e. our male inner parts) the quality of control. In contrast, the passive yin (our female inner parts) is the supposedly weak victim. Among other places, we live out this “game” between power and powerlessness in our love relationships, mostly completely unconscious. In parallel, the same “game” exists at […]
Colloquially, a “narcissist” is a person who displays pronounced egoism, arrogance and selfishness and behaves ruthlessly towards others. https://www.therapie.de/psyche/info/index/diagnose/persoenlichkeitsstoerungen/narzisstisch/ Are we all Nazis narcissists? There are distinctly visible forms of narcissism, but there are also the very subtle harbingers, in homeopathic doses, so to say. We think we are particularly important, we pile ourselves up […]
